Teaching respect, honesty, and gratitude at school and in the classroom requires these social-emotional learning lessons and hands-on activities for kids.
Respect Lessons & Activities for the Classroom
Teaching respect in the classroom is a task that teachers must do almost daily. For example, educators can incorporate these social skills lessons into various daily tasks. Here are several ways to teach children what respect means. Also, here are tips for teaching them how to be respectful in the classroom and beyond.
Teaching respect in the classroom helps students succeed. In other words, when children treat each other respectfully, they tend to respond positively to direction and instruction. In effect, they are more likely to succeed in academics. Distractions and behavioral disruptions are lessened. Communication lines open and are more relaxed. This makes for a more conducive learning environment. Try the following ideas to encourage respectfulness.
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- Respect Lessons & Activities for the Classroom
- Resources for Teaching Respect
- More for Teaching Respect
What It Actually Means to Teach Respect
- Explicit Teaching: Teach kids what respect is. Define it for them and with them. Brainstorm as a class what respect looks like, sounds like, and feels like. Provide them with the vocabulary necessary to express respect.
- Vocabulary Sort: Write words and actions describing respect and disrespect on cards. Have children sort them into categories: “Respectful” versus “Disrespectful.”
- Teach the “Golden Rule.” Most children learn this term in their families. You can bring this familiarity into the classroom. Define the “Golden Rule” and read books about it, such as The Golden Rule by Ilene Cooper and Do Unto Otters by Laurie Keller. You can post a sign in the classroom as a visual reminder. Grab this poster for FREE below!
- Draw & Write: A simple activity is to have children draw or write what respect means to them. Have them share it with the class or in small groups.
Teaching Respect Requires Opportunities to Show It
- Scenario Cards: Respect is something that must be seen and experienced to be truly understood. For example, role-playing with scenario cards can help. With the cards, kids act out behaviors associated with treating others with respect. Discuss if it demonstrated respect and offer suggestions if it didn’t.
- Acts of Service: Children can learn a great deal from serving others. For example, prioritizing the needs of others is one way to demonstrate respect. Participating in a community clean-up project is one way. Secondly, helping out with younger students (reading buddies) is another. Or, volunteering in another classroom to help clean tables is yet a third. There are many ways to work as a class to serve others and show respect.
- Personal connections: Give children the opportunity to share about ways in which they show respect every day. Perhaps writing about ways they are respectful will help them realize that they can and do! You can give them a “respect hat” and let them draw or write their ideas on it.
Respect Means Encouraging Honesty
- Discussion and Understanding: Simply, discuss what honesty means and what happens when one lies. Help children understand how honesty is an essential part of being respectful. Try reading Lying Up a Storm by Julia Cook.
- Games: Playing games in small groups or as a class helps students develop honesty and forthrightness with others. In effect, they must follow specific rules. As a result, this allows them to choose between being a respectful player, cheating, and being disrespectful. Games can provide excellent learning opportunities and foster meaningful discussions.
- Draw & Write: It’s always beneficial for kids to have a written or artistically expressed representation of what they’ve learned. Encourage children to write or draw about the ways they are honest at home and school.
- Tower or Trust: Honesty breeds trust. Talks about what trust is and builds a “tower of trust” using blocks. This activity creates a powerful visual for children. Practice building and taking blocks down as you give positive and negative examples of honesty. What does it take to knock it down (break someone’s trust)? And, what does it take to build it up (develop trustworthiness)?
Expressing Gratitude
- Define and Describe: Children need to have a good understanding of the concept of gratitude to be respectful to others. Take time to discuss what gratitude means. Brainstorm things they are thankful for, and have children draw and write about them. The Thankful Book by Todd Parr is a great book to help with this.
- Share: During classroom meetings or discussions, ask children to share when they felt grateful for something. Expressing gratitude verbally and listening to others share what they are thankful for helps. They form a habit of being grateful.
- Thankful Jar: Set out a special jar or container in your classroom in which children can place notes or reminders of things they are grateful for. The “Thankful Jar” can be a positive reminder to them of the good things they have. Also, it helps them to express gratitude to others. You can periodically read them aloud.
- Thank You Letters: Show children how to write a letter of thanks to someone who has done something for them. This is another effective way to encourage children to develop the habit of being grateful and expressing gratitude as a natural extension of respect.
- The Gratitude Game: Games are a great way to practice skills. Thankfulness is practiced in the Gratitude Game, where a child gives an example of something they are thankful for based on the color of the snap cube they randomly pick.
- Gratitude Journal: Provide students with a space to record the many things they are thankful for. This is an excellent practice in life, as even adults enjoy writing in a gratitude journal daily. It’s a practice that encourages a positive attitude and contentment. Grab a FREE gratitude journal below!
- Gratitude Wall: Dedicate a wall or bulletin board in your classroom to display notes and words that express gratitude. The visual reminder will be a great way to lead a discussion and encourage thankfulness at any time.
Show Kids that Respect is about Appreciating Differences
- Discuss Equality: With your class, you can explore the idea that everyone deserves respect, regardless of their differences. To lead a discussion on this topic, the following books are helpful: “Whoever You Are” by Mem Fox and “Good People Everywhere” by Lynea Gillen.
- Classroom Puzzle: One way to express differences and acceptance of them is to create a class puzzle. Each child decorates a piece of the puzzle according to their interests and individuality. While piecing it together, explain to the children that, like the puzzle pieces, “we fit together” as well.
- Self Portraits: Give children some time to brainstorm ways they are unique by drawing (or writing). Let them compare and contrast their similarities and differences with a peer. Read The Crayon Box That Talked by Shane Derolf, and have kids decorate a crayon with a self-portrait and personal facts about them. Use these to display on a classroom bulletin board.
When learning about respect, honesty, gratitude, and appreciating differences are essential topics to cover. For example, teaching respect in the classroom is not always a simple task. However, when you cover all the topics above, you can begin to see a marked improvement in respectfulness all around.
Resources for Teaching Respect
Free Gratitude Journal & Book Activity
Encourage children to express gratitude through words and pictures by using a gratitude journal and a book response activity.
Click the image below to download the FREE gratitude journal templates.
Free Respect Poster
Teach children what respect really means by learning the “Golden Rule” together. Later, post the poster or have the children color their own to hang.
Click the image below to download the FREE respect poster.
Respect Curriculum
The Respect SEL Curriculum includes five lessons and many activities that teach children about respect, acceptance, honesty, and gratitude.
Social Emotional Learning Curriculum
The mind + heart Social Emotional Learning Curriculum includes eight units! Each contains 5+ detailed, character education, research-based lessons filled with tons of hands-on and mindful activities. They encourage children to express themselves and build critical, emotional, and social skills.
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Well done for this great effort…its encouraging…..I will grab them with both hands for this year. thanks a lot.
I love the respect hat. Is there any way I can just get the hat?