Classroom expectations help students build social responsibility. Try creating a classroom contract together using the children’s ideas and the simple steps below.

Creating a Classroom Contract to Set Expectations
Social responsibility is about ethics and a duty to the greater good. As educators, we strive to teach students to understand and respect themselves, each other, and the world around them. It promotes thoughtful interactions with others and thinking beyond oneself. It is about making the right decisions and solving conflicts.
If you have arrived at this post, I can assume it is due to curiosity or a need to develop classroom expectations. Perhaps you are wondering how to teach social responsibility, where to begin, and what steps to take.
I hope this and future posts in this series give you actionable, straightforward lessons and ideas you can implement in your classroom today. Hopefully, you will start seeing the benefits of your students interacting, dealing with the highs and lows of their day, and making decisions in the classroom and on the playground. In addition, you will see the many little bodies in your classroom grow into ones that are fulfilled, peaceful, kind, and strong.
Table of Contents
- Creating a Classroom Contract to Set Expectations
- Creating Classroom Expectations with a Contract
- How to Create a Classroom Contract
- Classroom Expectations Step 1: Have Conversations & Read Books
- Classroom Expectations Step 2: Create an Anchor Chart
- Classroom Expectations Step 3: Review Chart & Pick 3 Ideas
- Classroom Expectations Step 4: Write & Illustrate Ideas
- Classroom Expectations Step 5: Write, Sign, & Review the Classroom Contract
- Free Classroom Contract Templates
- Social Emotional Learning Curriculum
- More Ideas for Setting Expectations
Creating Classroom Expectations with a Contract
Each year, we create a classroom contract. This multi-step process helps children identify what is essential in a classroom and take responsibility for maintaining it. A classroom contract is built with everyone’s participation and ideas. It becomes quite strong and powerful. It is also an excellent alternative to traditional classroom rules.
How to Create a Classroom Contract
Classroom Expectations Step 1: Have Conversations & Read Books
Starting at the beginning of the year, we have daily conversations about social topics. We talk about respect, community, teamwork, responsibility, etc. I ask them questions and give them scenarios to discuss and answer. This encourages critical thinking and the sharing of viewpoints.
Have weekly classroom meetings. During our classroom meetings, children are encouraged to openly share feelings and gratitude, give compliments, and solve problems.
I read books daily and choose stories illustrating how children deal with different emotions and issues. We talked about the stories, and the students shared their connections. These books for classroom meetings are perfect for teaching social skills and having those important conversations.

Classroom Expectations Step 2: Create an Anchor Chart
We gather as a class to create an anchor chart together (What are anchor charts?). I have the chart ready with the title “A Great Classroom” and a Y shape below it to create three separate areas to add our ideas. Children are asked to give their thoughts and answer questions honestly. You could also change the title to something different that suits your class, such as “A Peaceful Classroom” or “Mrs. or Mr.’s Classroom.”

I ask them to imagine what a “great” classroom looks like (what they see when they look around in their classroom and at the children). As students raise their hands and share ideas, I add them to the anchor chart. If I feel like an important idea has not been mentioned, I may give hints or ask questions until someone mentions it.
Some of the ideas for “A Great Classroom looks like include happy kids, working hard, fun, learning, helping, and more.

We switch to what a “great” classroom sounds like (what they hear in terms of noise and what people say). Children eagerly share their ideas, and I add them to that section.
Some of the ideas for “A Great Classroom sounds like include quiet working, manners, laughing, kind words, questions, and more.

Lastly, we talk about what a “great” classroom feels like (what feelings they have inside when they are at school and how people make them feel). This part is a bit more difficult for children. When you talk, encourage them to think about how they feel on a good day and when good things happen. This is good practice for kids to identify different emotions.
Some of the ideas for “A Great Classroom feels like include open, welcoming, respectful, happy, honest, and more.

Classroom Expectations Step 3: Review Chart & Pick 3 Ideas
Review and reread the chart with the class. Ask them if anyone needs anything explained or if there are any questions. While the ideas are still fresh in their minds, children get to pick their favorite three ideas. They choose one idea from each section and add a sticker to mark that spot.
Children line up and come up to the chart with their stickers. I ask them which ideas they think are the most important, and I help them, if needed, find those ideas on the chart.

As stickers are added, a few ideas from each section stand out. After all the stickers have been added, count up and write the number of stickers beside each “big” idea. Those “big” ideas become the main components of the classroom contract. If children believe those ideas to be the most important, they will be more prone to follow through and work hard.

Classroom Expectations Step 4: Write & Illustrate Ideas
As an extension activity, you could have students record their own 3-4 favorite ideas or the top ideas chosen by the class. Using the free templates, children can write their ideas and illustrate them, make their own anchor chart, record the final contract, and more. Optionally, they can post their work along with the final signed contract on a bulletin board later.
To use the FREE class contract resource, click the image below.
Classroom Expectations Step 5: Write, Sign, & Review the Classroom Contract
Separately, prewrite the class contract that includes our most important decisions as a class. I suggest writing them into a paragraph on a piece of chart paper and reading them aloud each day.

Read and practice it with the class. Each child can put their name or stamp a thumbprint on the final contract to show that they agree. Post the classroom contract somewhere visible and review it with the class often. I usually post it along a higher wall that we can all see and refer to often.

By developing a classroom contract with your students, you are letting them know that they are important members of the classroom community and that their ideas matter. This contract is a symbol of teamwork, cooperation, and respect. It lets children know and reminds them of their role as individuals. It is a powerful thing!
Free Classroom Contract Templates
Grab your set of classroom contract templates to make lesson planning a breeze! Use these templates to record important information and the contract following your classroom lesson.
Click the image below to grab a copy.
Social Emotional Learning Curriculum
Teach K-2 children the most important life lessons when they need them the most with units and activities on emotions, self-regulation, growth mindset, empathy, social awareness, friendship, kindness, respect, and responsibility. The Social Emotional Learning Curriculum has everything you need to teach these lessons!

Want to create a peaceful classroom filled with respectful, confident, and kind kids who can build relationships and communicate effectively? Then, this SEL curriculum for grades 3-5 is for you!

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Thanks, Elyse! You have some great ideas here.
Thanks Barbara! I am truly passionate about this activity and building social responsibility! So important!!
This is the best resource for setting expectations in the class ive ever seen. Thank you . -Homeschooling mom
Thanks Kate!
I love this! Did I miss the books that you read? I’d love to know some of the titles. Thanks!
This is a great resource! I’m doing this for the first time in my kindergarten class this year and was glad to see a sample of how you can go about doing this with the littles.
What happens when a student doesn’t not follow the expectations on the social contract? How do you approach it? What steps come next? Do you have any scenarios?
Hi Cindi. That is up to you and what your beliefs are related to behavior management. I prefer to use positive rather than punitive strategies. I would have a chat with them and review the expectations and make a plan together for improvement. We have weekly classroom meetings as well to review expectations and what’s working and what’s not. These types of meetings help tremendously. Hope that helps!
This is great! Love how you specifically go over each part. Is the classroom contract your rules? Or do you have something else related to rules? Or is the classroom contract the expectations students are required to follow?
Hi Amanda! Yes, this becomes my classroom ‘s overall expectations that students are expected to follow. I find that if we develop them together, they are much more invested in following them. I do also use a variation of the Whole Brain rules available on my blog as well.
I love this idea, I will be trying it with my third graders this year! Thanks!
Do you have any suggestions for how to revisit the contract more regularly in class? How do you reflect with your students on how they are or aren’t following the expectations?
Thank you so much for all the wonderful ideas, examples and resources to implement SEL in the classroom!
There is so much to learn and research for! It will keep me busy and motivated during this summer break!
I already have many great ideas to implement in our back to school!
Again, thank you so much!
You’re so welcome! All the best 🙂
Elyse